In that moment you can make a suggestion to her subconscious. Add something like "it's good to meet like this" and you will be telling her subconscious that meeting you is a good thing.
Constant Concentration Who hasn't at one point in their life held a grudge against another? Sometimes we can hold these grudges for long periods of time and even years leading up until our death. Of course we may believe we are only acting out of principle, but we are in actuality hurting ourselves. It may seem like we are coming from a place of dignity and power, but we are only wasting our energy on things that cannot be changed.